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Bpd jealousy reddit r/BorderlinePDisorder A chip A close button "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). It's most likely his friend who is obsessed with social media & is always on his phone (something that i can't understand) or his 19-year-old sister who is definitely going to be using Snapchat a lot, but logic sometimes takes a backseat to the jealousy and fear of abandonment. I hate being qBPD. Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. I'm 16, and have been managing my BPD independantly for about a year since my psychiatrist went on leave. I hated my boyfriend the other day, tried breaking up with him. There are a number of reasons our relationship didn’t work out, but she’s still my favorite person I keep in contact with. Expand user menu Open settings menu. That didn't matter though; all that mattered was that it temporarily reassured her that I was apologies for the formatting, I’m exhausted and on mobile Hi, I (17nb) (I am not officially diagnosed but am on the waitlist for diagnostic services for BPD due to age and I am receiving debt) have been with my boyfriend (17m) for about 15 months. Friend jealousy? 💭Seeking Support & Advice My best friend (25F) of 10 years, Anne and her husband (25M) got close with their neighbors. worst part is that we are extremely close and this ticks that part of my brain that allows me to act jealous. I've searched for posts on retroactive jealous, and while there are several, there aren't many stories of people with BPD that have gotten past their retroactive jealousy. And I still have no idea why I stayed with her for so long. i cant imagine anybody else having the 37 votes, 12 comments. He is definitely triggering, and this is a huge learning opportunity. I've never had a physical relationship, so can't help on that, but before therapy I would get very jealous about my Mum spending time with my sister, and the fact that I thought my sister had a 'perfect' life, that I would often resort to manipulation tactics to keep Mum from leaving the house. For example you have a close friend and the BPD person obsesses this and think does anyone else get jealous/a weird feeling idk how to describe when you know that ur partner masturbates when they're alone? we call every night when we're not together, we live 2h away from each other so we're not together everyday. I’m pretty happy in life . 5 years. This has definitely caused a strain on our friendship. I get this surge of annoyance/anger/jealousy but in reality I know I can't show it as it isn't fair. I know it was very nasty of me, and I couldn't handle the situation and exploded. Give yourself some time, trust takes time, especially with BPD. 💭Seeking Support & Advice hi, i’m 20F and i’m in a wonderful relationship with my bf Posted by u/Ornery_Damage6267 - 5 votes and 3 comments r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. 💭Seeking Support & Advice Hi everyone Don't feel guilty about feeling jealous. Pathological jealousy, also known as morbid jealousy, Othello syndrome or delusional jealousy, is a psychological disorder in which a person is preoccupied with the thought that their spouse or sexual partner is being unfaithful without having any real proof, along with socially unacceptable or abnormal behaviour related to these thoughts. 270K subscribers in the BPD community. I really struggle with jealousy, I’m even jealous of his coworkers that they get to spend all day with him and see him in his Btw, thank you BPD Reddit for existing. Jealousy and insecurity are normal emotions that everyone experiences, but when someone has borderline personality disorder, BPD traits, past trauma, or emotional sensitivity, the intensity of these emotions can be so much stronger — to the point of feeling unbearable. i really want to stop doing this. I obsessed over thinking he (applies to my exes as well) had a better time with other people than with me, that he was relieved I wasn’t there, that he would meet other women and see what he was missing by staying with someone with such a broken brain. Even if she had a Hello i am dealing with a bad case of jealousy to give some context i have been job hunting for ages and no place has ever reached back out to me and today my best friend was just handed and interview from one of the places i applied to thanks to her sister and i can’t help but feel so mad ive been in my room crying for 30 minutes and i just feel like shit i know i should be happy "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Resources are in the sidebar. You're not allowed to have things that give you happiness and fulfillment (like r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. It's a feeling, like any other. 💢Venting So to sum it all up, we were at our schools graduation event, and my ex with suspected NPD/BPD was sitting behind one of my close friends, talking about how her life is so exciting now that she’s single and talking to other guys. By the end of the first year, I had already completely stopped texting and phone calls to contact anyone besides him. Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. Members Online throwaway1827883828 r/BPDFamily: A place for people who have family members with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) or similar disorders. 💢Venting Post I'm quiet BPD, and I just keep fantasizing about lashing out and pushing him away like I always want to but never am able to do. I'm a 27yo gay male diagnosed with BPD. She admitted to relishing my jealousy, even though I told her repeatedly how devastating sexual jealousy was to me and how it made me shut down emotionally. I know she has her reasons to be jealous, but fucking hell. Members Online • Sea-Awareness3193. we are our own worst critics unfortunately Why So I (26) have BPD. It sounds like it might be more of a fetish. "Jealousy" usually has a negative connotation attached, but any feeling can be taken too far. out of all the things wrong with my brain, this is probably the worst. whenever this happens it also causes me to be shut off to my partner and feel cold towards them. Or The guy I'm seeing is totally unlike anyone I usually have dated. Log In / Sign Up; r/BPD is a community of people with BPD r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. If you have BPD, you know that you don't need a real reason to be jealous, and that your level of need for attention may not be realistic. (if this isn’t appropriate i’ll delete) basically i can’t get a handle on my jealousy. I imagine it's a pretty common trait in BPD since it's centered around attachment and security, but I doubt it's a given. Unfortunately I don't have any good advice for you, just know you're not alone in this. When a partner with any of these backgrounds is feeling jealous or insecure, even in [] Anyway, I think ridiculous jealousy is a hallmark of BPD. it feels like a competition to me and sometimes i even wish it happened to me instead. 10 years. My mom and dad both would find every way they could to tell me how awful someone was for me and try to get me to leave them. Having bpd, my jealousy is a hugely prevalent thing - I’m sure quite a few people will understand that. The app is great and basically tries to teach you how to “correct” your BPD thinking. We aim to help one another build the tools needed to help the person we love get through their journey to treatment, as well as support each other with understanding of BPD and what it can cause. Anytime my partner mentions an ex or an experience they had with an ex it makes me physically ill. i have a hard time breaking out of it, and i'm in this cycle of guilt and vindication. I have been treated for BPD since I was 15, and I can control most of my emotions, but not jealousy. i don’t have any real reason to feel this way it’s really just me making things up in my head to justify these feelings i think. Being happy and hugging your friends or walking around humming your favourite song is cool. It is really the root of our problems. He wants you to be someone you're not, and will punish you when you are yourself because alongside the enmeshment/abandonment problems that cause jealousy and suspicion in the male BPD (especially if you're conventionally attractive) they eventually don't see you as your own person; more of an extension of them. Absolutely yes. it feels horrible to be envious, especially when the reason is extremely irrational. he goes to an all boys college, most of the other guys are weird frat boys. does anyone else have this extreme jealosy specially of my fp bc i can get triggered by EVery SINGLE THING he does that makes me feel inferior. I confronted her once (which took a freakin lot of courage) and said that she must stop talking badly about my father to me or my younger sisters (age 8 and 16) as it’s not appropriate. Jealousy in and of itself is neither healthy nor unhealthy. I feel stupid and idk how to change. true. Does anyone else struggle with this? Is there any way you've found helps talk down the crazy bpd brain? I hate all about this. Jealousy like this is so real & bitter, I feel this in my bones when it comes up. Members Online how tf are we so emotional and so numb at the same time? I had to rigidly change my outlook on relationships when I was young. r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. Members Online Anyone ever at the point fuck friends. Members Online I wish I could go back. And something I'm struggling with is I feel super jealous that my SO(34) was in a long term relationship before me (7 years) I I’m really really struggling with my BPD at the moment, I don’t know what I like and who I like. I -hated- my spouse’s best friend for almost 10 years. It never used to be anywhere near this bad, but now if he mentions doing something with his brother or family it makes me start bawling my eyes out and feel worthless and forgotten. She grieves how close our family used to be before my sister hit puberty and her BPD onset. Is it possible? I'm in DBT, I take my meds, I practice mindfulness, and I've been seeing a great therapist for over a for personal reason, i will not be sharing who these people in this post are, although i worry people will be able to catch onto who these people are, but it can apply to many people, i guess. I also will compare myself to them down to the smallest details and assume because we’re not the same that i must not be my partners type. "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). So how about jealousy? I was diagnosed with bpd two years ago, and since then everything I do makes so much sense. I’m a happy girl but was diagnosed with BPD as a teen. She told me she’s planning on moving out of her parents house and said “oh yeah problem is you’re not ready so I gotta find someone to live with” and that just ruined my whole mood. Bpd jealousy I don't want my fp (bf) to have friends I don't want him to have a life that doesn't always include me I don't want his attention to be on anyone but me I feel worthless after him saying he wants more friends to go to concerts with and see more things with. r/BPD A chip A close button. How can I get help to her? What started as "normal" (haha) jealousy quickly grew out of bounds completely. This week he did just that. I used to always blame my BPD Jealousy for what I felt, but no it is just a warning that something is off and you should be careful. Members Online LibrarianKey3378 r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. I can’t control it and sometimes my brain starts Here's the thing, living with BPD is so hard and feels so unfair, you want others to see and feel your pain, and to take it away from you, especially the ones who love you. Thankfully I don't think those Since i know ALOT of us have jealousy and possesion issues , Skip to main content. Not that it's a healthy change, but all of us cope in our own ways. Kind of an odd question, but it’s something I’ve been wondering for a while. Members Online trytofiguremeout I don’t think it is a characteristic of bpd. Log In / Sign Up; r/BPD is a community of people with BPD i’m not sure if i have bpd or not i most def can’t afford professional help but so far i’ve related to most if not all the symptoms and some of the stories here and i just have that question how do you deal with the jealousy even if it’s just a thought in your own head that will never happen that can send you into a very very dark place and how do u deal with the anger and the constant Does anyone else struggle with this? I get jealous and bitter about everything. And now I’m at the other end of it. Took a long time, but I got the jealousy/possessiveness under control. Not even normal jealousy, over the top extreme jealousy. She’s doing much better now, and I care for her a lot. i hate it. Blowing things out of proportion is Middle age male who wishes I was transgender, but no real dysphoria just jealousy Jealousy is a prominent feature for those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder (NPD and BPD). . They only liked the dysfunctional guys I dated, because they knew it kept me dependent on them for emotional support. Turned out no. This helped me a lot in the beginning of my relationship when my jealousy was wicked towards my boyfriend and his female coworker. I genuinely feel that there isn't anything I can do to fix the jealousy problem. Members Online Why do they always say its safe to open up, they won't be scared away? Recently my jealousy regarding my boyfriend has been growing and it’s really hard to cope with. . I was just right with my jealousy, I believe that they do it for because they looking out for something „better“. Or check it out in the app stores Jealousy, Envy, and Borderline Personality Disorder This is a reddit community to welcome all who have a relationship (platonic, romantic or family) with someone suffering from BPD. i know how disgustingly toxic this is so i fight with everything in me to keep When I feel this feeling of intense jealousy, I start to grow distant. ADMIN MOD a rundown of jealousy and insecurity in friendships . r/BPD is a community of people with BPD Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. she always was accusing me of cheating - even though I never would cheat on her and I never did anything to make her think I would cheat. She needs you to need her for you to survive. What you felt is not a symptom fo BPD (how you are reacting to it is, but that's something else), so to work out that jealousy your husband and you need to communicate, make agreements and compromises. I still have jealousy issues with him in particular, but I realized that my husband wasn’t going to leave me just because he sees his friends. Or check it out in the app stores If you live with BPD/EUPD, or care about someone who has it, Members Online • Excellent_Hockey_149. mixed with BPD is a total headfuck. r/BPDlovedones A chip A close button A certain amount of jealousy, a human emotion, is normal. He's generally very open to learning and helping in any way he can. This whole time i have been neglecting my bpd stuff and i think thats partially because im scared of not getting Skip to main content. i have been in one relationship before where i didnt feel close to that person so my jealousy wasnt triggered at all because i didnt care. Log In / Sign Up; r/BPD is a community of people with BPD One_Celebration_8131. ️ Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. Members Online Quick-Pomegranate256 Yes. For others Before I found out I had BPD, I thought I was just "a very jealous person. Then I get frustrated for being frustrating to myself. I found out that my boyfriend had done a few things with his previous girlfriend (who was abusive) and kind of ruined experiences for him. " Being with someone for six years, who cheated on me repeatedly, did not help matters, and I carried that into my next I (pwbpd) am in an extremely happy and healthy relationship and know my boyfriend (pwobpd) would never do anything. Also, on the flipside, this is a opportunity for her to confront and noticed the issues that she have in BPD jealousy not communicating properly, etc. Or check it out in the app stores r/BPD is a community of people with BPD ADMIN MOD retroactive jealousy and my personality . seeing my fp happy doing things without me triggers the absolute f*ck out of me. I’m filled with such jealousy that she’s doing all that. My bpd sister tried to sleep with every guy I dated out of jealousy I had someone. No other reason to do it than. 126 votes, 36 comments. Members Online I fucking hate having such intense emotions. Most people with bpd feel anger sadness and other emotions deeper then others. I hear mine on work calls with colleagues and he is so professional and pleasant, and if it is someone he manages he also sounds caring and supportiveI just get so jealous as those women are so intelligent, younger than me and interested in the same things as himand here’s the stinger, they’re not out of their mind half the time like me. and this gives her a chance to work on healing to become an awakened BPD. It won't get any better. She thinks if she apologizes for her outbursts, it makes it all ok My mom feels the same way. So a friend just told me about how in the past month she was almost admitted to a hospital for suicidal thoughts. My favourite person goes to the same school I do, which is awesome. I deserve a lot better. My pwBPD who has developed a morbid jealousy over the course of our relationship has me worried, as she is now progressing into delusional territory. But after she shared this with me I couldn’t shake this sick jealousy over her situation. I remind myself of that regularly. He was quite literally jealous of Same. Sorry you went through that, OP. Members Online anyone else have the urge to completely isolate yourself from others so you don't have to deal with the reality of how unlovable you are for me, even in my worst relationships I'd never feel jealous without genuine reason,,,,, until I got w my current partner and the jealousy came out of nowhere and can get so strong and toxic I think that's bc while I (at the time) thought my exes were my perfect partner I also felt equal (obviousI feel equal in my relationship rn but I feel like he could and should find better than The title is kinda self explanatory, I have been diagnosed with BPD 3 months ago, and I have this very close friend whom my brain just has breakdowns over: for example tonight she went to a party with some other people I don’t know, and I’m sitting here having a mental breakdown thinking she’s just going to drop our friendship since it’s trash value. I haven't got much advices for you, except to see people as always shifting, changing, that includes yourself. He doesn't know he's my FP but he knows I have BPD and tries his best to give me a hand whenever I need it. Log In Jealousy . I’m 22 and married to my favorite person who holds me accountable Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. The way he worded things would make even the sanest person jealous. so, long story short, my boyfriend went back to his college (that is two hours from mine) about two weeks ago. I get super toxic with lovers because of my jealousy, which I hate. we have what i would consider a healthy relationship, r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. 💭Seeking Support & Advice Apparently I haven’t grown at all and I still can’t handle my partners doing their own thing. I think the jealousy is part of the condition. Every time my girlfriend talks about another dude I get so heat up I don’t know why. Hey Reddit, Does anyone in here go through extreme jealousy in your relationships? When I find out my boyfriend is talking or hanging with girls he used to have crushes on I start to feel rejected. we see each other practically every weekend and do loads of activities with each other, but originally met in a group chat with But with therapy and consistency, I was able to heal. I thought I was alone this whole time upvotes I don't know why she thought behaving that way would keep me around or make me interested during the whole love-bombing stage. r/BPD. For me, I hate jealousy 100%. My only hope is that I find a way to deal with it better because I truly do not wish any harm upon him. Log In / Sign Up; Advertise on Reddit; r/BPD is a community of people with BPD If we ever have a baby and they cuddle that baby around me I'm going to boil in jealousy. Members Online NSFW 277K subscribers in the BPD community. but i care so much about him and we spend so much time together and so it makes the betrayal so much worse Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. That'd be our baby and I'd sit there, stewing, like the little b!tch i’m fairly new to finding out i have bpd, and i’m still learning how to control it. At first I was so mortified I felt these levels of jealousy but I know deep down the jealousy is a projection of my fear of abandonment BPD is noncompliant with therapy, and has no insight into how her sister keeps her at arms length. Question Post Have you ever been CONVINCED 100% (or strongly suspected Hi there, I'm not officially diagnosed with BPD but I've talked to my psychologist and it's clear that there's a good chance that I do have it, unfortunately she refuses to diagnose me due to how easy it is to misdiagnose it. Okay so I have really bad jealousy issues and I don’t know what to do, Skip to main content. Or check it out in the app stores r/BPD is a community of people with BPD Jealousy and Insecurity 💭Seeking Support & Advice I feel so intimidated and insecure when my husband looks at other women. Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log in to Reddit. she's pretty, rich, tall, very thin, and most importantly, has no trauma r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (I’ve been going to therapy of various kinds for 10+ years, too). Or check it out in the app stores r/BPD is a community of people with BPD Members Online • little-nightmare-ki. ADMIN MOD BPD & jealousy: struggles with body image . Other parts of my bpd are still a work in progress, but this was one major hurtle I was able to overcome with his help Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. Like ok, I'm not an expert but I'm seeing progress in managing my rage and my sadness. Now I’m in happy relationship, I love my girlfriend so much but I’m so afraid that I will self-sabotage this with my jealousy. He’s gone out tonight to a house party and he’s staying over. Not only are accusations often confessions in disguise, but they're an indication of how a pwBPD needs to see you in order to level the playing field, because you're nothing more than a Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log in to Reddit. i wish more than anything my mind didn’t work like this, but when people talk about things that have traumatized them i feel jealousy when it’s more severe than what i have gone through. r/retroactivejealousy A chip A close button Quiet BPD and Recognizing Your Love, Fear, Jealousy in Your Fav Person? I’m a 34 (mtf) woman and I feel like I found the love of my life a year and a half ago. It's one of their gas lighting tactics to make you feel like you are the irrational crazy one. ADMIN MOD Tips on handling jealousy . Anyone else with a BPD mother that hates the fact that you got on well with your dad? My whole life she has spoken ill of my dad to me and my sisters like she’s on a mission to turn us against him. Is this common BPD behavior? She was incredibly jealous. Good looking people, people in relationships, groups of friends who look like they're having a good time, my own friends looking like they're having a better time without me, my crush talking to other guys, it all just hurts a lot sometimes. I just feel that he is all I have. ADMIN MOD Jealousy issues . Posted by u/Behroth - 7 votes and 14 comments 13 votes, 11 comments. One minute I love everyone and the next I hate everyone. HOWEVER, I make up scenarios in my head all the time of him Jealousy and insecurity are normal emotions that everyone experiences, but when someone has borderline personality disorder, BPD traits, past trauma, or emotional sensitivity, the intensity of these emotions can be so One of the more complicated parts of having borderline personality disorder (BPD) is when you develop that intense, unbreakable connection to one specific person: your “favorite person,” or FP for short. Or check it out in the app stores r/BPD is a community of people with BPD ADMIN MOD Intense jealousy . I’m talking splitting every time he was even brought up hated. Extreme Jealousy and BPD . What do you do when you have these feelings? (if you feel such jealousy and have similar emotions) I would appreciate any advice and thank you very much. These two groups use significantly different Jealousy is a normal human emotion, but pathological jealousy, also known as delusional jealousy or morbid jealousy, is a psychiatric symptom in which the afflicted person Does anyone else have crazy jealousy? My bpd is ruining my relationship. Or check it out in the app stores We're pretty much the same age and my jealousy is terrible Reply reply More posts you may like r/BPD. Ultimately I think jealousy can be something r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. My best friend (only friend, tbh) for almost 10 years and I are estranged right now because I got so jealous of her making new friends in her new city 3 hours away. Skip to main content. People tell me that I don't "seem BPD" when they have no clue what it's like in my head. Log In / Sign Up; r/BPD is a community of people with BPD Members Online • Lynnsammie00. Log In / Sign Up; Advertise on Reddit; Shop Collectible Avatars; Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. anyways, i spend hours at a time staring and reading about this one girl i'm very jealous of. To be honest, I usually date people significantly less attractive than me because Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log in to Reddit. I just lay in bed being so frustrated with my own mind plus the world too. Log In / Sign Up; r/BPD is a community of people with BPD Members Online • Ok-Seaweed-8316 . For example, me trying to get hold of them but I can't and they reply telling me they were out with someone else doing whatever. I don’t mean jealousy in the form of relationships, but I mean when I go to my friends house I have this world crushing feeling of jealousy that I’ll never ever get to experience her beauty, her family, her house and the way she thinks. My replies become short and choppy and sometimes I don't even reply at all. They're well aware of my jealousy issues, even complaining about it to me, so I've tried to mask my distaste to the best of my ability. Is there a way to hide that jealousy or stop caring? I feel like at this point if anything ruins my relationship it would be me getting jealous over my bf simply having a life outside of me. i talked about it with him a couple r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. Log In / Sign Up; r/BPD is a community of people with BPD fp jealousy . I think jealousy and possessiveness are intertwined, the jealousy being more of a threat to the self-esteem or the relationship, and it is often fought through controlling behaviors (ie. Members Online lyricalxmiracle Every time I don't answer her questions she burns up with jealousy and she can't even look in my eyes because of how paralyzing this jealousy is for her. r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD Skip to main content Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home So yeah the man I'm in a healthy relationship with thinks that me being jealous is out of character for me! Meanwhile when I was with my bdpx we would have jealousy fueled drama about weekly. I don’t have advice, but I want to let you know I understand. I can't lose him. My FP showed me many signs of being interested in me too, but when we got to have a deep conversation they told me they weren't looking for a relationship right now. possessiveness). 26 votes, 24 comments. hi. so i’m just typing this out here because i don’t know what else to do. when something happens to the r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. I’ve been admitted in the past so it Ik I have a spending problem and I can’t save for shit. My BPD is going crazy. Follow Reddit's content policy. Members Online I’m nobody’s first choice for anything r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. hi these past few months ive been seething with jealousy towards my (bf) fp (i try my best to not show it) its not even anything i should be worried about, i hate that he has friends/people other than me, im sure he wont ever cheat on me but i hate the fact that he talks with people that arent me and possibly enjoy their company, it makes me so upset. 💭Seeking Support & Advice so my boyfriend of 3 years is my fp. I finally found a relationship with a guy who seems to genuinely love me and want to be with me long-term. Members Online BPD in remission. Get app "r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Members Online Thelightoftomorrow Posted by u/arbecs - No votes and 1 comment BPD is a Cluster B PD along w NPD, HPD, & ASPD; they’re categorized as such based on the “dramatic, emotional, &/or erratic” symptom presentation, vs Cluster A being “odd or eccentric”, and Cluster C being “anxious and fearful”. i need help. Now, the feeling that used to be jealousy is crazy arousal at my partner being with someone else. or even if he gets higher grades than me in college i r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. As I mentioned in another post the other day; sex, jealousy etc. Today, a couple of hours ago she finally i know this is a common experience with bpd so i’m sure there’s been many posts like this but holy shit the rage and jealously that overwhelms my body when my fp is hanging out with people that aren’t me is so terrifying. As someone with BPD I can say I struggle with the same things you do! It's scary how similar it actually seems. for example everytime is dinner time i get insanely rage because he gets dinner ready by his mom, but there’s me that i have to make it myself and im extremely jealous for that. So a while back I got into contact with my former crush and fp through Tinder (of all the fucking places). You deserve happiness and to be free of anxiety, but with BPD, your symptoms are often "worsened" in a relationship. needing to get this off my chest but does anyone else feel intense guilt for their jealousy? i feel the guilt so strong from being jealous that it makes me extremely nauseous. It never goes up more than 4 points in a day, unless he's snapping me. on those days, specifically at night when they go to sleep before me, i suddenly start thinking ab whether they've done it today or not or are they I have gone through this exact thing in every one of my relationships, including for the first year or so with my now husband. Members Online Btw, thank you BPD Reddit for existing. ADMIN MOD Jealousy . Log In r/BPD is a community of people with and resources to help guide them through their journey. r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) and people who know someone with BPD looking for mutual support and resources to help guide them through their journey. I'm not talking about relationship jealousy. I found that technique somewhere on Reddit but so forget specifically where. This all started from jealousy red flags that would pop up here and there within the first year. I got a diary called clarity on my phone. Or check it out in the app stores r/BPD is a community of people with BPD (EUPD) Members Online • Kir6ndos. Obviously I get easily jealous like any other person with bpd which just makes me hate it more. 💢Venting Post Sometikes I feel like if I didn't experience such extreme envy/jealousy then I would be able to keep a lid on everything else. Or check it out in the app stores r/BPD is a community of people with BPD I have found it so hard not to be consumed with fomo/jealousy and knowing he is having fun and I HATE THAT I CANT STOP IT. I need to vent. A pwBPD desperately needs to "merge" with you. Expand user menu Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. 💭Seeking Support & Advice How do I stop feeling like this? Among other counterintuitive propositions, paranoia is a projection of their aggression. At some point you can also tell him about this issue. her father is rich and famous. he started hanging out with this group of friends, that he said he had prior, but he’s NEVER hung out with I've never had this happen before, but I noticed that I was jealous of the fact that my boyfriend's friends had a good relationship with his ex-girlfriend from 5/6 years ago. Members Online It really bothers me when people say "you need to work on yourself" when I've been working on myself my whole life 2nd post in a row, sorry! I have serious issues with jealousy and general insecurity, particularly in relationships. Recently got a fave person, and haven't felt this strongly about anyone in years. Btw, thank you BPD Reddit for existing. This subreddit is an abuse support forum. eib jderi mctjwc jveh sjyw ktja qtayfh qulv ietjj tgtroel