Reddit my sister wants one of my twins. Scenario two: You make a move on her, she reciprocates.

Reddit my sister wants one of my twins At first I didn't mind it at all because, well, it was my normal and I do genuinely love my sister but when we started getting older and I developed my own interests I would get so frustrated or upset when I either couldn't do something because Jess didn't want to or the only way that I could do it was if Jess could come with me and vice versa. i helped her a lot when they came home from the nicu. I really need y’alls advice. (This is why btw "haha which one is the evil one" is the most Ones smarter, one is more athletic, one has a better singing voice, one has a bad temper, one can draw (that must mean the other sister cannot), etc. We're still best friends and are similar in a lot of ways but bottom line we have different personalities Me, (Claire) has only had one boyfriend, who broke up with me a few weeks later because of me and my sisters condition 2. it just proves to me that even my parents can't treat us like two separate people. On the other hand, for my daughter's birthday, I gifted her a $300 Visa gift card. One of our twins happens to have a name with the same first letter of their first and are somewhat similar. Looks, grades, sports, you name it. Then it kind of just made me hurt real bad for her. I was appalled. People might think being the ignored one wouldn’t be so bad, but it’s pretty awful. One time my sister noticed it and became kinda uncomfortable, so she mentioned to a relative that I looked pretty today & the relative just hummed while looking away. I said I don’t like the idea, I have a twin sister who I matched everything with and it got so annoying to me. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. My girlfriend got angry and said that she shouldn't be made to feel jealous of my sister. So uncomfortable. I am a mother of twins and it truly is one of the greatest blessings. My sister saw this story while browsing on her reddit acc. Both my twin and I were really confused. However we are all close. However, my daughter got really upset about the gift she recieved compared to her brothers, and now she won't talk to me. (Just if it makes you feel better) I also have f/m twins my kids are always either the boys/big kids (big sister)/Twins lol they are all lumped in there together somewhere. I have 3 month old twins and my sister is 3 months pregnant. We have been made to feel like duplicates and like one person a majority of our lives. She kept trying to encourage me to give in and said it would be the right thing to do It’s a really close relationship, even when I got on my twin sisters nerves and she was angry with me we still hung out and did things together, if awkwardly. I'll go through fire if it needs to be for my twin. Think Hector and Henry. " They were also roommates, and while they looked nearly identical, I couldn't stand the sister (who was high I remember a thread from a twin who had been abused for being the second - her parents admitted they only wanted one child and actually tried to give OP away but no adoptive Update: My twin sister (18F) and I (18F) took a genetic test, and we did not share any DNA. My parents still feel like my parents, and my siblings like my siblings. TL;DR I'm jealous of my sister and I want to stop feeling that way since she did nothing wrong. Well I like to think im also sweet and religious but because people were comparing us, I was portrayed as less so. The 3 month olds are doing well. When someone was trying to butter one of us up, they would say something negative about the other one. She just bought a house and life is good :). I became very dependent and it was actually my sister who didn't like that i was independent. I don't want this one drunken incident wreck our relationship for the rest of our lives. Lately, they’ve been planning their future, too. to My wife and I also have twins. But even with that experience, I cannot begin to fathom what losing my twin sister would be like. Lastname. And one thing me and my wife have done is always tell them they are the same age. I have a niece and nephew that were twins. The exact page I linked for you is titled "raising happy healthy twins" but if you look on the right hand side, there's a bunch of green links to other relevant articles (same site) the first half are mainly about raising gifted kids, but the second half is almost exclusively twin related. Rule-breaking may result in a ban without notice. I’m dying 😂 my twins are also weird little adorable monsters. driven, and dedicated to what she wants but she is cognizant of others and always willing to lend I hand; I admire her motivation sometimes. I didn’t baby wear much, and I never fell asleep with one on my chest - one of my favorite things to do with my son. and the parents of these twins showed up and told me that they want their twins in the same prek class because one of them is very shy and relies on the I'm an identical twin and in fourth grade on April Fool's Day we decided to switch classrooms. I joked with my husband that he was now going to be responsible for the sex talk with them being boys. I want to wait until I’m more stable before I initiate anything, I’ll get a job once I’ve recovered from my birth and after I’ve saved enough for an apartment in my own name (I refuse to let him buy me an apartment, I don’t want him to have anything to hold over my head My husbands twin brother actually did this to him too! My husband had been dating a girl for about 2 years when he found out that the girl and his brother had been having an affair behind his back. It’s just it won’t have you there- it’s unreasonable to expect you to be a bit player on your own 18th birthday too, to your twin sister! Mind blowing anyone doesn’t see the strangeness in that . I have a 8 year old daughter and 5 year old b/g twins. Every single one of us got way drunker than usual to celebrate the rare occasion where we can all hang out. I was the oldest best friend since we were 6. One wants to wear their older brothers clothes and does not like matching her sister. I feel like that’s part of what makes it so sad because you didn’t live up to the idea of what twins are supposed to be. I love her fiercely and I would defend her until the end to anyone. Spent a lot of years Always had a partner in crime in projects, travel, or whatever. Oh my sweet, I am so sorry. I'm not sure what to think about my mother. As a kid I wanted a twin sister thanks to Mary-Kate and Ashley. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. But no, to my suprise it was a letter stating that my sister found out she's infertile and congratulating me on becoming her surrogate. And my birthday is actually my birthday, so they haven't been committing any weird fraud. While I never denied I had a twin sister, I did what I could to live my own life and be my own person. I thought this was just a neat coincidence, and joked about how much money we would save on birthday parties. Right now my twin and I live 10 minutes apart and still have hope we'll buy houses near each other one day! I can totally relate to this. but, its not hard forever. This website. My sister maintains that she really wants to see me and that she's so sorry and that my father made her do it, but she's still with him. She had to change formula and she took medicine. My dad isn't talking to her at the moment and is staying at one of my brothers house. Plus they can play with each other so you don't have to keep them entertained. She and my dad showed me how a family could be. In the yearbook, they used Natalie's picture, and put the name "N. My sister texted me that my brother had killed himself, with details, only for me to drive to where he was supposed to be, frantically calling him, and he finally answered and warned me off because he knew that my other brother was actually there (the one who had sexually abused me for To piggy back off of this. What should my next step be, when no one in the family is telling me why? My sister is demanding that I give her one of my babies since I had twins. You know when people say that parents don't have a favorite child? That's a lie. We’ve been best friends my whole life. its hard. We have not spoken more than twice in the last 8 years. No one knows me better than my twin sister and she’ll always know me better. Found out my boyfriend only dated me because I'm an identical twin and he wants a threesome with my sister. I trust her and her judgement completely and I know she has my best interests at heart. But since that number isn’t 100%, clearly there’s something else going on. Any advise on how to tackle apologising, getting my sisters trust back, and showing her I truly just want the best for her? PS: apologies for spelling/grammar mistakes. They laughed about it but my dad said "Wait that is not okay. I don't care what thr outside world thinks. More so when I think back to the times he's asked me lots of questions about what it's like having a twin sister and asked why we're not closer. I do not want to fuck my sister. My twin sister became homeless and me and my husband took care of her for 1 year. I hope one day we are cool again but my life is chill and peaceful now. Do not let boys play you like that. I tell him to go fuck himself and I go see a movie with my arm round my boyfriend. You can also draw a portrait of her face and frame it. My sister and I are 3 years apart and obviously never were ok the same class, but that is a very normal It's more convenient for my sister to collaborate with my mother on their version of the narrative about me. When my twins were about a year old I told my husband, “I need to take a nap with one of the babies. I just didn’t want one to hold it over the other growing up. She accused me of painting her like a looney and misinterpreting facts. The O. My parents began screaming at me for being selfish and not As the mother of twins I can’t image adopting out one of them. Keep in mind, reddit, that my sister is very controlling over me and the only reason I was allowed to move out is I'm a twin. But when naming my twins, I went with what most other twins (generally here on Reddit said)--that it's best that the names are harmonious but non-matching. The kind of relationship that people said "oh you'll get over when you're older". She wants me to adopt her child, meaning that when my twins are 9 months old, I may be adopting her new-born, giving me 3 under 1. P. of course that one only works if the younger twin comes first in the yearbook and obviously you’d put your own time View community ranking In the Top 1% of largest communities on Reddit. Our parents refused to to take sides and made us work it out. Every time my twin comes into my life he crushes me and leaves the pieces for me to put back together. Me and my twin are in our 30s and even though we took different paths (similar to you and your twin - my twin in healthcare and me in business), I noticed that she's ended up in a similar field to me - the tech space which is where I landed first. We had no idea what they were choosing. My eldest brother is six years older than us and while we are close he was always much older than us. She thinks she can just get away with everything because she’s my sister. Your twins will find out about each I [22F] love my twin brother [22M, 22 years]. I wasn’t sure I wanted two - let alone three. Yes, I was the last of my friends to get married and now the last to have kids so all my friends have kids and one of my friends from college has twins. I would go to my sisters room when I was sad and sleep in bed with her, but we are both girls so I My Sister. My sister and her husband didn't want to do inpatient treatment for depression/postpartum. Growing up as an identical twin sucked so much and im sure alot of you guys can relate. You two look so adorable and happy in the photo you shared with us. I have a singleton, then twins, and I missed so many singleton moments with my twins. I told her that I cannot have her baby. One of the things I plan to buy her (and myself) are Thing 1 and Thing 2 shirts (like what they wear in "Cat in the hat"). I’m hurt, I’m really disturbed, and I just want my sister back. My sister is my twin so she's hands down my favorite person in the entire world like I literally love her so much. Like my sister was always the sweet and religious one. It's very weird. Sometimes I will have decided its a t-shirt/shorts day or long sleeve/pants day, ask both what they want color or pattern wise for the shirt, then I'll pick the bottoms I feel like it’d be better to not know what it’s like to have a twin than to have one and then they don’t want to talk to you anymore. We use to look so much alike as young Children but now we go to separate colleges and are older. ) I have a boyfriend of 2 years and I want to tell my parents about him 5. Thanks, everyone! Sarah is clearly hurt but will do anything for Liza including kissing her twin sister 3. I think you can buy your sister that too. If you find any comments/submissions in violation of subreddit/reddit rules, please use the report function to bring it to the mod teams attention. Some of you guys mentioned an update, if people want one, I can give one I guess. " My aunt does this with my cousins. One of my identical twin sisters friends once seriously asked us if we had the same father It was the type of stupidity that renders you speechless. I very rarely speak to my mom no who is apparently not siding with either of us. I said I am not giving my twins up for adoption. She’s set on the idea of raising our two boys as twins. I don’t think any of the those people want a Tesla without Elon. We had been I don't want to give one more attention than the other. Ofc I want my brother to I thought it was kind of awkward up until she asked him to talk to distract her. One wants a beach house and the other wants a forest house. I hate that she chose my mother, knowing what she's done. I don't hate my sister. My parents, twin sister and I did DNA testing and it turns out my parents are distant relatives somehow and my sister and her husband are also. Also, I can make fun of my sister- but don’t anyone else. Hi Reddit, I (18f) have a twin sister(18f) and an older sister(23f), and we are close and I love them. Not to be insensitive or immoral, but I think I would be hurt a lot more if I lost my twin over my mom or another sibling (if I had one). Throughout my life, I resented my sister. This is Reddit's very own solution-hub. Our twins were born 4. She couldn’t have expected her sister to take it literally, fail to mention it throughout the entire pregnancy, then casually bring I talked to my brother, apparently my sister decided she doesn't want to go to med school, she wants to take a vacation to think about the future with cleared mind or something like that and you guessed it, (almost) everyone think I should go with her (after all we are twins and it will only be fair that we'll start studying at the same time). I got married. Personal experience: My In recent years one way I've been able to include my twin in my life more, is by telling acquaintances or people I meet ( that I know won't meet my family)that I have 6 siblings instead of 5 . ) Ffs my parents are clearly supportive 4. Me and my wife have recently been deciding names for our twins and my wife wants them to be matching. Anyway, to get back in topic, I want to be able to see myself as a creative person within the community we're both part of but I also don't want to antagonize her just because she has more of a following than I do. All because they found out my One time, we were all four of us in the kitchen and a guy called one sister, and she didn't answer, so he called the other sister. Im an identical twin (20f) and while i love my sister, being a twin destroys me. We’ve always fought over everything; guys, clothes, friends, etc. That’s well above par for the general population selected at random, so there’s SOME kind of genetic factor at play for why some people at trans. My sister has been acting weirdly, and my family as well. My parents have blamed me for her choices because I've always mothered her, it was as if I'm responsible for her actions. Ons of the first things my partner asked me when we first met, or maybe when we were on our first date together--we knew each other for a short time through a rec league--,and they told me they have a twin was "I bet you want to know who is older" and I honestly was so surprised because it hadn't Ok I just want to let you know one thing, that I haven't seen anyone mention. My predictions are correct a lot of the time, and I feel like my twin is going to latch onto this, dooming my dream of a future at a university where he is not, where people can see me as an individual rather than a member of "the twins". While no one technically SAYS it it can be subtly reinforced that one twin’s face is rounder, one twin’s eyes are closer together, one twin has a scar, etc etc. For concluded-only updates, use the CONCLUDED flair or subscribe to r/BestofBoRU for concluded, time-gated content. should hire a lawyer NOW, tell the lawyer everything he wrote here (maybe have the I was just about healing from her former marriage and now this one is also putting me in a very uncomfortable position. my father is the only one who is normal but i'm upset that he wanted my sister to go to an event that should have been something just for me. My twin said they must have mixed my sample up with someone else. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: telling my sister she could’ve dated the guy she liked had she not been such a misogynistic pick me In a study conducted on twins, when one identical twin was transgender, the other one was also trans 12% of the time. It's a power and control tactic: enlisting others to support the behavior because it is advantageous to the social standing in an in-group: my birth family. So it’s a different type of relationship. OP, you are so NTA, and you have every right to not want your sister at your wedding. I don't want my own birthday because it would mean I don't have my sister, but I also want my own birthday. My sister had twins and one was significantly louder than the other, and wanted to be held, because she had reflux. I’m just as close with him as I am with my twin brother. she also has 3 older children as well. It's been frustrating not knowing! My Mother had a c-section and the doctor told her that there was either one placenta or that there were two fused together. Apparently when they are grown ups, they will do rock paper scissors and go from there. I spent the night socializing with my girlfriend and my friends, not really interacting with the twin sister too much as she was occupied with other people in the bar. Hi All, My twin sister and I are in our 40s. About 3 months later, my twin started working out (which is fine, everyone works out) and got really into it. She is my SISTER. My sister and I are identical twins or at least that’s what the doctor has said. There’s no one I love more than my twins and they both know that. I don’t think anyone else has made them more money than Elon We were literally twins, we have to share DNA. At 27 my twin got married and her husband bought out my share of the house so I could buy a house with my girlfriend (who My step mother was the mom I needed growing up. I'm sorry, but we wouldn't know, we have never been seriously injured before. For literally 10 seconds I was upset. We talked and he said that he didn't want to raise three kids at once and that we had agreed to wait until our youngest was at least 8 to have a third. We were all the most important women to her throughout her life. I know you want your twin there but she enjoys different things and her close friends think she’d enjoy this surprise 18th party. Now that I've learnt this is a normal and harmless part of growing up for a lot of siblings, I don't feel any shame or weirdness at all: kids do so much weird shit except no one talks about it so it's Also the fact they cared more about my sisters now dead fetus than my actual children, who wonder why they only have one set of grandparents. I was floored. I didn't talk to my parents, I didn't talk to my sister. If you are requesting dramas on a certain site (e. ) Imagine kissing my sister's gf (pukes) My sister is pissed I said no, she called me a homophobe bitch and many other names. It's pretty late where I am, so I'm gonna bring it up to her tomorrow. What my sister failed to tell me was that she was student of the week in class and I would have to get up in front of everyone and pretend to be her. I however had a harder time. My(16F) mom(43F) wants to have another baby My girlfriend (was hospitalized from 25 weeks due to preclampsia and gestational diabetes) delivered her twins at 28weeks by emergency c-section, one was 800gram and one was just under 1kilo. ) Part of the issue is that you're making a lot of assumptions about what all identical twins want. Apparently, I’m getting a hot tub on the beach. My dad is a twin, his sister had twin daughters, and twins run on my mother's side of the family, and I also meet some of the other predictors for twin pregnancy (over 30, taller than average, etc) so it was not a surprise at all. But in some ways, it's a relief. When I did tell him, it was great that my instincts were right that he thought twin fetishes were gross and that he was only interested in me for me plus I told him that as twins my sister and I have a unique bond (best friends to the nth degree) that he must respect (aka she will always come first) and he respects that twin bond we have, which When we got married, my twins were very much well accepted into my husband's family, he can't have children of his own, so his parents were very much pleased with two girls in the family, at the beginning she treated them just the same, but as they're growing up my MIL grew closer to Anne (I've always suspected that it has something to do with Lastly, and I think this is common to many siblings, not just twins, no one is allowed to talk crap about my twin but me (like, 30 yrs ago anyway). He also said that he thinks we should give one of the twins up for adoption. We are pushing 40, and getting group messages from well-meaning family members just feels less than. She just wants to not feel alone. However, now my sister, my mom [57f], and my dad [65m] want me back in their life. Thanks Eastern European Jewish history! So for us, numbers are higher than they should be because they show up as a match to both sides of my family and we just forget about trying on the distant If I hang out with one of them its always "why did i not bring H?" I am my own person, as is my twin and I wish we could be as such with my family Love being a twin, I would not change it for the world, just beyond frustrating I cannot be my own person with my siblings. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I want to know peoples opinions on whether or not I am an arsehole for refusing to invite my sister to my wedding since a lot of time has gone past. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. She realised she needed me more than she thought. 75 votes, 20 comments. If they ask how many brothers and sisters I have. time flies so fast, i cant believe my son turned two already (yesterday, actually). He is funny, smart, and a blast to be around. I don't know about my other sisters my dad has said they aren't txting anyone about what has gone on. Now we've been trying for a second for 5 months or so and I find out I was pregnant around 3 weeks ago, I went and had an ultra sound and they said the pregnancy was around 9 weeks along. To throw another wrench in things my sister passed away a week after we found out- bringing a whole other bunch of emotions. Some people brought up that she might be sexually confused. When we found out we were having twins, we hoped we’d have one of each. Back then the blood tests were expensive, so Me and my sister are so close, she is one of my best friends, and have never talked about this: for ages I felt so weird even remembering it. chief amongst them being my twin brother. We don't really fight, he just simply doesn't like me. Good luck. Love my family and all, its just hard to navigate. My parents constantly forgot to pick me up from school after sports. One year in elementary school, the gym teacher sent home a photo she'd taken off one of us on the balance beam, and nobody in the family could Besides the health risk, twins sound glamorous in theory, but in reality, they are challenging and push people and marriages to the breaking point. With my sister, my BIL and my own mother. but I don’t want to burden people with my own problems! I’d rather just work in my childfree silence until I can afford to help myself. And his twin brother was actually like three months away from marrying his own girlfriend! It crushed my husband at the time. They both have solid jobs and each one pays more than three times what my diabetic husband makes. g. ” I called my twin sister first and she just started I love you. Pacifiers, bottles, strollers you name it. Twin 1: To the window Twin 2: To the wall! Twin 1- I’m only 3 1/2 minutes younger. I mean technically they were created at the same time the only difference was one was in front so got yanked out first and the other was 2 mins behind. There’s the favorite, the hated, and the ignored. my sister has 3 year old twins, i have a 2 year old son. Please DO NOT do this. My sister and I are m/f twins age 20. It's awful, but it is the truth. SIL3 is just so calm, cool, and collected all the time; she's smart and strategic but If I could go back and tell 8 year old you some advice, it would be to pave your own way. Not I will also add that one of my brothers is only 14 months older than us (me and my twin). My principal just put both twins in my class after telling me and the parents that she would absolutely not do so. I (33M) am a future parent to two twin boys. No sane person asks that. haha. One of my twins was While I'd love to live with my twin and my husband, sometimes it doesn't feel like the best idea because I'd just want to hang out with her all the time lol. Was so weird because we actually all worked together. it really only feels like No, I’m not wrong. I feel some sort of guilt for it but I refuse to offer any condolences to my destructive narcissistic sister who has been justified in her bad behavior since birth. The bonds of twins is unlike anything And yes, as childish as it sounds, the birthday also plays a big part in it. Edit: Claire Fraternal twin here. It always bummed me out. Also, a zip line in the forrest. A pair of twins used to go to my school. well my family is actually pretty dysfunctional - narcissistic mother, abusive brother (he doesn't live here, thank god) and my competitive sister. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I demanded that my sister change her lifestyle so it wouldn't affect me anymore, even though I know I don't really have any right to tell people how to live. I'm older but have a sister I am really close with and always have been. One of my twins has CP, she is tinier, more "lovey-dovey personality" and her twin is chunkier and "feistier" ever since they were born pretty much my mom gravitated to my CP twin as she was much snugglier and smilier than her sister My daughter was a year and a half when we found out we were having twins. We shared friends but didn’t let people divide us and always made up when we fought. This isn't even the first time a guy has asked me. We told our grandparents, and they just said that was interesting, and said nothing else. It's a used one, nothing fancy, but it's a reliable vehicle to get him around. I tried to explain what my pregnancy did to my body with my heart and she started crying. I posted a thread in AITA about some issues we were having with friends of ours (check post history for details) and I got all these horrible comments saying I'm too close to my twin and it's unhealthy and that I am somehow abusing her by being so close. I’m the father of 8 yo twin boys. I love my sibling so much, and yes I'm much closer to my twin sibling than my non-twin sibling. She tried to teach me unconditional love (a concept I never understood until my nephews came along) and she did little things to let me know there was more than just the abusive home I was in for most of the week. I know exactly what you mean. My ex was a twin, and explained to me that she and her sister were "mirror twins. my family is a whole Hey Reddit, So let me give you some back story, my husband and I have married for 5 years and have 2. Well, I am 26 now and while my husband knows about my twin sister, he doesn't ask about her. I think I could live my life, but it would be significantly worse if she died. My son is a very quiet baby whereas my daughter is very fussy and wants to be held 24/7. And when I defended my sister against this, my girlfriend said I must feel the same way toward my own twin. We found out they were boys. I don't want the more difficult labor, the higher chance of complications, any of that. BADLY. Everyone hates me, literally everyone and that’s one of the reasons I’m thinking about quitting my volunteer job, nobody wants me there. Ah I have an identical twin sister and my parents did all they could to foster our individualality different first name initials different activities for us separate birthdays etc. I miss him dearly. Who he was long ago. The loss of a sibling is unreal. Nowadays people can tell us apart. She cut her carotid artery with a razor blade and lot a ton of blood. I am 1 yr and 3 weeks younger than my sister and my mom did this to us. My twin sister and I were not and while I wouldn’t mind living with them for awhile, eventually with will have to go our separate ways. I ended up being taller than my sister in 4th grade. My sister (I'm male, so same dynamic as yours) has always compared herself to me and it was obvious that it made her resentful and bitter towards me. It's not because I want to hurt her or something. If my parents knew all this they might see where I'm coming from, it's not just random that I don't want her meeting my boyfriend. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I made a big deal out of celebrating my birthday and wanting it to be about me and not my sister, Ava, who has been a priority for my parents since she was born. A few weeks ago, my second son was born. Like, in an effort to recognize individuality, people overemphasize differences. Netflix) please add your region to the post to help our users recommend something you have access That is false hope and I came to the realization last night that it's time to grieve the twin sister I lost, and accept the new version (whom is incapable of taking care of herself, maintaining relationship, or holding adult responsibilities of any kind). CHECK FLAIR to determine if you want to read an update. Now my sister went to my original classroom without a hitch. 5 year old son (planned). It’s happened to me! My friend called me to ask me to help plan a party for my twin, invited ALL our friends and then told me I couldn’t come because it was ‘her day’ they ended up canceling but still that was some bullshit One of my closet friends asked if I was going and to help pick out presents- I made a joke like ‘you better get me something too’ and they had forgotten it was My twin and I had just about the same friend groups growing up, and it happened a good amount of times where one of our friends, who i thought i was super close to, would just nonchalantly mention how they liked my sister more than me and then immediately continued as if they hadn’t said anything that could be conceived as hurtful. We also answer to each other’s names. Sister Wives; 90 Day Fiance; Wife Swap; The Amazing Race Australia; Elon Musk had twins last year with one of his top executives TESLAGENTIAL businessinsider. My best friend had 6 bridesmaids standing up next to her, and while we were all her sisters, not one of us had a biological of familial link to her. She won’t fall asleep unless my husband or I are rocking her. He was somehow born on the exact day my 1-year old was born. I think this comes down to personalities. I generally have a pretty hard time I think it really depends of if the pair is raised as a unit. My mom and sister create emergencies to try and “bring the family back together”. If you act on this in any way, it WILL ruin the rest of your life. She wants to meet my partner and she sent a very nice e-card to my new mother to thank her for taking care of me. Everyone wants a twin but they don’t know what it’s really like. Archived post. Before everyone met my sister at that year's Christmas party, no one called me her name. Absolutely. Actually I totally do. My problem is that all my life we have been compared for everything. I’m an identical twin who’s married and my sister is single. One thing that gave me a little peace on this decision was to step back and think of them not as twins but as siblings. I know that technically they're not, but I don't feel too upset about it. It's generally the first question I get when I tell people I have a twin sister. I should mention now that my girlfriend and her sister wore very People got us "mixed up," but we were fraternal. I wish I could consider him one of my best friends but he doesn't let me get close to him. My wife was excited but I can remember thinking- “there is no way I would be able to handle this!”. She said "on one hand, I want to protect her and keep her by my side, but on the other, I need to let her spread her wings". My twin sister and I have had a horrible relationship for the last 23 years of our life. sometimes because the pregnant partner has been too sick and uncomfortable for sex leading them to seek out someone else and other times the pregnant partner is the one being declined I have a narcissist of a sister of my own, but my gosh, she's just ONE narcissist, not a whole damn team 😱 I'd like to add something to your excellent advice, please. No one acted fast enough. We ended up contacting the company, and my twin and I took a test again. New comments cannot be posted and votes I am an identical twin sister with a close bond with my twin. 5 months before Connor and Kara’s first. I was forced to follow my sister’s milestones and had everything taken away from me 1 year earlier. I am so done with her after begging her to change and she promises to but remains the same, even worse. My parents were interested. Honestly, it just sounds like OP was literally just saying it as a half joke to make sister feel better in that moment. Myself however am not, I’m the worthless twin and I’m ugly as hell. The one thing I’ve learned from the twins here is that twins have a higher need for emotional intimacy or intensity in a long-term relationship in order for them to be fulfilled/happy. Twin 2: best 3 1/2 minutes of my life. (Info: My sister got wind of the situation due to various Media outlets and went on reddit) She said that I was being unfair. " I'm sure he's feeling exactly the way you are. She wanted to adopt one of the twins. Everything in our home was meant for her, as the princesses birth right. I started showing at 13 weeks & my mother kept saying “you’re having twins. After I found that out I went know contact. When we were kids, my parents forced me do everything for her just because she has a learning disability that causes her to be in diapers and my parents forced me to buy them with my own money and change them for her since we were 5 years old. My oldest daughter NEEDS one on one time. She’s my closest friend ever. When i was growing up i only needed my sister and most of our friends were ones she had made. This caused her to have strokes. One twin is the smart twin. When i went to college it was so nice knowing people wanted to be friends with me and not because of my sister. One of my friends that also has twins is an elementary teacher, and she split hers up and recommends we do the same. It is deep and painful and beyond the most awful and tragic pains that exist in this world. Twins have a special bond from even before they are born. Different twins have different relationships with each other. The depression would probably follow me forever because even people who lose siblings or parents are hurt forever. I cannot imagine your pain. “Oh good, now I can date him. Let's forget about it and move on. My sister already had 2 kids a boy and a girl (born 2 years apart) and she really wanted 4 like our mom had me, her and my other 2 sisters, but after she found out she was pregnant the third time (with the twins, unknowingly at the time) my brother-in-law said that he would be happy and fine with just the 3. They said it would be good practice for when they die. When they are apart people just know they are my boys but can’t remember which one is which. One was Natasha, the other Natalie. My sister is unable to have a baby of her own, so her and my mother decided that I My sister is unable to have a baby of her own, so her and my mother decided that I should have one for her! Now that my sister found out that I’m having twins, she won’t stop © Geeky_daydreamer / Reddit I’m sorry, but the fact that she’d ask for one of your twins just proves she’s not in a healthy mental state to raise children. Hey fellow twin, my birthday is coming up too. I always thought and still do think that we look very alike apart from hair and she has 'chubbier' cheeks If you can even call it that. Mainly it’s about looks. The problem is, our parents are really strict and traditional, and they'd probably kick her out if I told them any of that. It is a weird feeling because I’m some ways it feels like we’re in the same stage of life and in other ways it feels like we’re not. I couldn’t live with the pain. She is 6 months postpartum. My wife however is taking it a lot more seriously. I mourn my brother. It makes it hard in the morning and it is hard for people. I am, too and have been following a couple of the pregnancy reddit pages and see a LOT of posts lately about cheating husbands. Plus he pretty much owns the board. However my twin brother is loved and praised there, like he is everywhere else. Frankly, my twin thinks sets of twins dating/marrying is extremely weird as a concept. She’s my twin. If I acted mad Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. They don't believe in sex before marriage it's incredibly sad to think of but this actually could likely be it. in the moment, its really hard with twin babies. but our relationship came to a halt a few weeks ago when a mutual guy friend of ours sent me a link to an onlyfans profile, with an attached message that stated “this u?” Me and my sister had this same issue mainly from her being bullied for how she looked and I was always classed as the 'prettier' twin for some reason. Even though she won't My (f) twin (f) and I were very close and bought a house at 21 together, at 23 she met her boyfriend, at 25 I met my girlfriend and I moved into her house and my twins boyfriend took my place and moved in to my twins house. One of my twins was hiding on the first ultrasound. Both my brothers and their wives are on my side completely on this matter. Recently we found out we were having twin girls! While I was initially excited I quickly realized he was not. I did have the thought of "is she copying me" and "does she even Joel is willing to pay ALL my bills, but only if I stay with him. I don't understand why they ask this. I will be giving my sister a gift for the first time in our lives. We looked totally different, but people put us under that twin umbrella. I love my sister because she is the other half and we love the same things. He doesn't seem to like me or want to be around me, and I don't know why. Expected her to immediately catch herself and realise how idiotic her question sounded out loud, but instead she doubled down and started to explain what she meant by "same father" as though we I'm an identical twin who just lost my non-twin brother to a drunk-driving accident. My sister and I are a year and a half apart but we looked a lot alike as kids. Hey yall little vent here. My twins (I have two sets of identical twin boys) had a dot added to the bottom of the big toe of the firstborn child. My sister and I look identical and we have heard this our whole life. Scenario one: You make a move, she reacts like everyone would and your sibling relationship is forever broken. My parents had one, and it was my sister. Tell her you miss her and how much you want her to get well. It was the same result. My twins on the other hand, they love going out as the whole family, and wouldn’t even really like going out alone for one on one time. I would hate to think one drunken dumb thing could have wrecked that forever. He points, laughs and says some homophobic remarks. I had teachers tell me to study with my sister. So as I came to accept I love her in ways most wouldn’t understand. (Which I think is pretty judgemental, but hey, we're different people with different opinions. So my twins are John & Mercy. But I don't want twins. I have a beautiful son, I have to be here for him. ” I also worked with identical twins and one of their girlfriends broke up with one of them and started dating the other. My sister would sometimes reach out to “mend” the relationship but she My mother took it worst of all. My sister is an amazing, smart, beautiful, bubbly human and I love her to death. So my twin sister has always been the golden child. I love my twins so much but they are much harder than singletons. My parents were always rly good ab making me feel unique and special but everyone is just so fucking ignorant. However I know that having my sister in one of those roles will for sure lead to fights and I I mean, this was my sisters immediate response when one of my exes and I broke up. My sister is a former drug addict and current felon. My husband has 2 brothers that both have children and so does one of his close friends. Frankly, I tried to keep them away from Kara. She lost her mind. My sister got all the attention and pictures before I If I wanted children I would actually want to have twins because you get 2 for the price of 1 pregnancy! And pregnancy and childbirth are the things I would dread the most about being a mother. If you have an issue with this post (flair, formatting, quality), reply to this comment. . Stop comparing them. Some people have even told us that we do not understand what it means to be fraternal and they insist we are identical. I'm really happy to have her back in my life. I once worked with someone who literally had my sister's same name. I'll encourage him to talk them. I hope that you are able to hold her dear to your heart for the rest of your life. That she is married and neither of us is into women or incest doesn't matter to him. This never worked and was super sus. She then accused my sister of having romantic feelings for me. Twins, especially identical twins, are basically forced to share everything growing up and are treated as being either halves of the same person, or the good one/bad one. Of course it wasn’t perfect. I can’t let my twin take that away. People try to make twins be too different and that can cause problems. I stumbled upon this randomly a few months ago. Anyways. My (31F) younger sister (25F) is one of my best friends. Looking for dramas about identical twins that have switched places or lives that may lead to new romance relationships. My mom dressed us alike until we protested when we became teenagers. I know why he invites us over and I know he likes to be a bit nosy. I want to make it clear, I don't want to kink shame him - he's allowed to enjoy whatever he wants, but when it's explicitly about twins it absolutely makes me feel uncomfortable. Here's the deal: For my son's birthday, I bought him a car. My sister and I are fraternal twins (male/female) but we are nothing alike. After years what can get internalized (even if people don’t mean to make it sound like that) is: One twin is the fat twin. com Open. One twin is the pretty twin. I know it's not much but it's nice to include my twin in casual conversation with others. I was actually a bit worried about that since they're so very far apart in popularity (27 vs 788), but they're the same sort of name anyway. Scenario two: You make a move on her, she reciprocates. We message or call each other every few days and I can tell her almost anything, she's supportive and caring. Many times I'll pick out the outfits and then Whomever is available, or whomever didn't choose last time, gets to pick which one they want and their sister gets the other one. At this point the only one who knew i was bi was issac but one day walking into a cinema holding my boyfriends hand I bump into my evil twin. I didn't think about that but it makes a lot of sense. I was the ignored one. at the height of delirium, made more sense. Hey u/mosiacsoml!While you wait for recommendations from other users, check out these great recommendations compiled from our users based on different genres and themes! Maybe you'll find something to watch while you wait. I don't want my twin sister in my wedding party and my mom can't handle it. If I found out I was pregnant with twins, my first question would be, do they share an egg/placenta, and can I get a reduction? Please read our SUB RULES before commenting. I had kids. My twin sister doesn’t ever call me, unfriended me on Facebook, and makes excuses for not celebrating our birthday together. They were in special care for 3 months with a multitude of issues. This is good for me to keep in mind that other people's behavior is on their mind. Or people can DM me if they want one. This pissed me off because it is a baseless thing to throw out against my sister. I (18 f) and my identical twin sister (also 18 f, obviously) have always had a tumultuous and competitive relationship. pkc xthlj ubzvj kgdcy vzwzrit kfj jzpnz mswtd tqe sxbjpof